Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Why Some People Are So Unfair

Why Some People Are So Unfair

By
Prof. Liwayway Memije-Cruz

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other.
George Eliot


I am just wondering why some people are so unfair
They just hurt and misjudge you in your way
Hurting you so much as if you don’t have the heart
That would not feel the pain of being treated that way

I am just wondering why some people are so unfair
They make a fool out of you despite the kindness you have share
What they can give you in return is injustice and pain
Rather than give the kindness that you have shared.

I am just wondering why some people are so unfair
Knowing that they can never get anything from you
They will just dropped you just like that
As if you don’t have the heart to feel the pain.

I am just wondering why some people are so unfair
But I just have to pray that they would never be
Encountering people like who they are
As they journey through their lives here on earth.

172 comments:

  1. As an individual, we must understand that we differ from each other. Everyone is unique and doesn't has his replica.

    So don't ever find yourself to anybody.

    Maybe, some are unfair but there's still people who are just and fair.

    So never expect.

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  2. Unfair. well, life is just so unfair at the moment, i guess. Maybe now you're getting all worked out, being blamed for something you haven't done or not being appreciated for something you've done. But i still believe that in due time , it will al be paid off. Your work will all get through. Even if i have experienced it and thought of many things as being unfair, like bringing a laptop for a seminar (im not suppossed to but i was just asked at the last minute) and not being complimented nor appreciated or just be thanked for. but i know that somehow it'll al be paid off. Anyways, it always comes down to you that you know what the real thing is.

    .>jing<.

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  3. Why won't they be...It's their way of showing that the world will never be fair. It is how they see the world. It how they want things to be. And its how they want people to think.

    Its you who should know how to be strong despite the hard trials you encounter with these kinds of people. Being fair doesn't only need to be for the forgiving but also for the forgiven.

    Can you imagine a world where there is peace and love? That is the only fair world you will ever be close to seeing when people themselves can never satisfy their needs. So the tend to be unfair just for them to take advantage of the situations.

    That's why somethings can never be fair, for the principles of others may only rely on their other sides.

    Jason Anthony Reyes
    BBrC 3-3

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  4. Why people are so unfair?

    It depends on the people around us. some people are honest and trust. In business, you will see different people how they fool people without hurting their feelings.

    Fooling someone is unfair right? but that is the reality of life. We can't stop bad people hunger for power.

    For example: this election, you'll never know who is saying the truth and honest to the people. they always make a promise but everyone said that promise are made to be broken.

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  5. Sometimes as we grow, we see that some people are being so unfair..especially when if comes to a point that we do something for them that they don't appreciate, but as we know that life is just so unfair. We should manage those things in the right way we can that we don't hurt anyone.

    And all it happens are such unexpected so we need to accept it whether it is in good or bad side of our life.


    BSIOP 3-3

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  6. The Pain Of Loss Is Just To Much....when we know one of are love ones betrayed or being unfair to us...we feel depressed and it makes us stupid,feel low,sad,mad and sometimes we forget world... but that is life we don't need to stay in the shawdow of depression, we need to move on to see the beauty of the day again...

    Ahmed Allen B. Tubo

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  7. Sometimes i tend to ask why life seems to be unfair for several reasons at all. But I suddenly thought about if it was really our life who's unfair or the people around us who do things that brings pain and injustice that makes us think how our life can be so unfair. There are so many people who have experienced the pain of cruelty and inferiority among their selves yet they still continue the way they were. I cannot blame them for doing so because I think the world will never be fair to those people who allow themselves to be victims of others. I'm not saying that we should learn to fight violently, rather we should know how to stand for our right and be strong enough and just let others do their way for kindness shall always prevail.

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  8. Life is unfair...

    Yes, its true...,

    Someone's betrayed you, judged you, or even hurt you. But we should learn to be mature enough to accept these things. We have to be strong, because nobody can help us but ourselves.

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  9. life is really unfair..that's why we have to be strong. kailangan natin matutunan kung ano ang kahalagahan ng bawat isa..know how to carry things in our own simple ways..learned to appreciate simple things..people who always hurt us should know the things they did'nt know..some people dont know how to appreciate..

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  10. I've asked that question over and over again in years, i guess since i was a child, but i only came to a bitter realization that everything in this world is just so unfair! from material things to family you have...

    People who will judge you easily, but never really knew you at all, that even the person you love will sometimes judge you easily. But as i grew older i start to realize that if we will only focus our attention to those who judge you and their judgment, you will only end up being angry, and bitter to them, that eventually you will ended up being the person they judge. For me the only thing you can do is show them and give them kindness. And even if they did not return that kindness still we should be thankful that we had shown them love instead of bitterness because i believe that someday they will remember us as a loving and kind person, that despite what they showed or judged us still we opened our hearts for them. with a hope that someday their judgment about us will change.

    i believe that surviving through this we can be a strong person, and that too much expectation can only hurt us, lets be grateful for things so that we will not be disappointed in the end.

    (jobelle)

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  11. I always wander why some do people are so unfair and unjust. The main reason of this issue is selfishness and greediness of people especially for those in authority or great power. Injustice is very transparent everywhere mostly here in our own country. Why do poverty and economic crisis is consistently condemning our nation? Why corruption is unresolved? Why some employers and capitalists continue to exploit the employees’ rights to have absolute good benefits and wages? What pushes the people to do such unfair things? It is all rooted in perversity and wickedness of abusive people in great power and authority!
    ‘’Masters, provide your slaves with what is right and fair, because you know that you also have a Master in heaven.’’ (COLOSSIANS 4:18, TNIV)

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  12. Where we can find a person whose dignity humiliate their own? Fair or unFair?

    Nowadays, very few are only said that is fair, for God gave us different attitude that no one can know. It is impossible for the opportunist to let somebody to decide by himself alone without a profit or deception happen. According to the Bible it is better to give than to receive, so let them and focus to yourself.

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  13. fairness ..
    dont expect someone will like you the way you want to .. some people look at you at his/her different way .
    every people has its own judgement . being you and accepting his/her judgement and let those judgement help you to improve yourself ..
    think those judgement as self-motivation and always remind this judgement to you to help you .. :)

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  14. Indeed, some people are unfair. They tend to play with your feelings and suddenly hitting a blow in your heart that it almost moved out of place. As a person, I always encounter these kinds of people. Sometimes, they leave me grudges, until that grudges wanted to revenge. But now, I just have realized, the God’s natural law, “what you sow is what you reap.”
    That’s why Lord Jesus said that we should pray for these people, and instead of cursing them, to bless them. Just imagine how much a single seed when planted bears many fruits. Just like what they did, it will also be very painful for them when they experience what they did. So we are expected to help these people.
    We are responsible for our neighbor. Though they may be hurting us, they are still our brothers and sisters, and God will be our father. We still have to understand their feelings and then try to be at peace with them without doing any evil. And so, when God sees us, He will bless our works and He will be our guidance in all our deeds and decisions. And for these unfair people, let God discipline them, just as a father disciplines a stubborn child. And thus, lead them to wonderful changes.

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  15. We can never please others

    on how grategul you did..

    the important is your living your life right

    we dont have to live our life in others want to see from you

    critisisms from others are words that gives you two reason to live your life

    1. being positive even that critisms are negative ones you can take those words as a challenge in your life.

    2. being negative when you take that critisms negatively you will not move on towards your life's goal

    so where are you ?

    everybody in this world needs acceptance..

    but you dont have to act like them if you want to be accepted

    essence of acceptance is..

    others accepts you being you naturally

    nothing in this world is created by god perfectly thats why everybody is created unfair in other way

    we are good in very own special ways..

    think of this if all of us were created fairly

    yes there is no jealousy and we dont need help by others

    but God created us to fill in others weaknesses

    so that there is interactions happening in us

    so no more issues of unfair because God created it to interact with each other..


    Ivan Gorge B. Pulmones
    BOA II-5D

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  16. I am also wondering why some people are so unfair in treating others but I guess it is because of wrong criticism and judgement to others that will lead to discrimination.


    I, as an ordinary person, I also agree to the statement that life is unfair. I also encounter some people who treated me differently despite of the kindness that I show them but that is not enough for them maybe their minds are being poisoned of wrong judgements and I cannot please them that's why I'd rather choose to go away from them and try to look for somebody who can accept for who I am.


    In some cases, not all people can love us, can understand us and accept us because we cannot please them to do that so let's just celebrate each differences and GO ON...:-)



    Odessa V. Aguirre
    BOA II-5D

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  17. "Because life revolves around competition."

    Life could be unfair. I faced it, and everybody does. But if you just look around you a bit more, then you will find out that there are things in life that are reasonable. I also know it makes me stronger than a lot of other people, more inventive and maybe sometimes even more proud. Getting angry and staying angry about it won’t work.It’s difficult for others to imagine what you have to do and have to go through. And it’s even more difficult to let them see that. The only thing you can exert an influence on is the way you handle all those things yourself.

    Ana Marie R. Coronel
    Boa 2-3d

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  18. Why Some People Are So Unfair?


    People are unfair because they judge you according to what you are saying and acting they are blinded by others to make you feel the same as they misjudge other people. Saying unfair words and misjudging other people might be easier for these kind of persons than judging themselves. They do not look into what your kindness is, they are looking on what is wrong about you, like the a piece of white paper. It was clean until you mark a small period on the center.It is like ,even though ,how far your distance to that paper you can still see the mark you left. It can never see the purity of the paper once it leaves a mark. No matter how small the mark was.


    Charmaine Y. Mallari
    BOA 2-3D

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  19. “Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.”

    People are getting unfair because there are some instances that made them selfish, or insecurity may occur. It is also unfair for a person if she is judging with other people if they really don't know the through personality of an individual. "Don't judge the book by its cover" this phrase mat be interrelated because lot of people are being unfair in saying bad attitudes against others but they didn't see their self doing those bad things they always catch the attention of doing bad things of other people. Also there are some people who have crab mentality which means that they don't have any care about the feelings of other people because what is important to them is the eagerness to achieve their certain goal. Always think first the feeling of other people before doing something because we didn't maybe in the coming days we will be the know who is hurting by other people.


    DIONNA MAE U GABUTAN
    BOA 2-3D

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  20. WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE SO UNFAIR


    I am wondering if people are fair? what will be the result? Maybe there are no kidnappers, holdapers, and there are no wars?

    Maybe people are unfair in a reason of they don't understand whom really they are or just because they can't accept that there are people better than them. Being unfair, for me, is natural, because we have different attitude in different in a way of living.

    The one thing that i can't understand is that why people can't accept or didn't understand why we are so different in life? And why people disagree that there are some better than them?

    Edison P. Borca
    BOA 2-3d

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  21. Why some people are so unfair? Is it because your Broken or Rejected and you don't know the reason behind it? Accept it. That's Reality. Life is full of Surprises, so we have to be prepared.
    Because thats life!
    Don’t expect ANYTHING, and ANYTHING that comes your way that is positive will seem so much better.
    Take it from someone that knows.
    The problem is our mindset. Our way of thinking. It’s best to just ignore them. They are happy in their ignorance and obviously my thoughts mean jack to them.
    What difference does it make to me if they see things my way? All I ask is that they hear my thoughts and if they refuse then I simply walk away.
    I don’t involve myself with them.
    That's all I get everyday, is unfair judgment from people who don't even know me, or know anything about anything I've been through. I know there's a reason why people act the way they act, but why do they judge in such a hurtful way. Is it fear of differences or ignorance? I know this may seem like a silly question but I'm young and there are a lot of things I'm going through that I can't understand. Just like having to deal with these types of people so often. You have to stop and take yourself out of the situation, and stop playing the blame game, and stop taking on the hurt and pain and anger and guilt of others, it isn't fair to you.
    MARICAR DELA CRUZ
    BOAII-3D

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  22. Being unfair is not a good thing to be done. This blog is awesome for advising us not to mind those people who are unfair and just pray for them.

    As an employee in a company, you cannot step aside the fact that no matter how hard you try, you will still gain enemies. It really feels bad when someone is angry on you or having a inner rage onto you. It weakens your whole day.
    Another better relevance of it is how an office employee dresses. With this heart-breaking poem, it can make people wear their appropriate dress. As an office professional, you should look simple but presentable to everyone. It adds points of the company you are working with.

    MARY GRACE N. AMONCIO
    BOA II-3D

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  24. This article also wondering and questioning me why some people are so unfair. Some of us didn’t know that we are hurting someone in simple way like backstabber, misinterpret the problems of others, didn’t mind what you are talking about and not treated them as human as you are.


    Some people are so unfair because they don’t mind the people around them, they have also a prioritizing in the people who were belong with, and they hurt you as long as they didn’t know you anymore.


    Let’s just be in reality that some of us are modernized and some of us are not easily to trust as long as we are not close to each other.


    JESSICA D. GONZALES
    BOA II-3D

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  25. I agree! Some people are so unfair. They simply judge you and say a lot of things about you as if they know you very well. They don't think about other people's feelings. They say what they want to say. And I admit, I became one of them before.

    But I realize that doing this is bad, really really bad because I don't want other people to do it to me also. So, don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you. Let's just be fair. We, human beings, are not made perfectly. Everyone of us has a good and a bad side. We should just accept it! Everyone commits mistakes. But those mistakes must be a lesson to learn.

    We cannot please everybody. But we should act properly and respect other people's feelings.


    Ma. Jessica Pamela Pilpa
    BSA H2-1D

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  26. Pride and prejudice is very noticeable in our society. This blog says one of the facts that is very hard to understand. Although we treat others kindly or cordially, they often respond oppositely. I also do not know why but I precisely accede that they were not what is meant for us. They're not our true friends nor companions. They're just taking advantages of what we are, what we do for their beneficiary purposes.

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  27. Pride and prejudice is very noticeable in our society. This blog says one of the facts that is very hard to understand. Although we treat others kindly or cordially, they often respond oppositely. I also do not know why but I precisely accede that they were not what is meant for us. They're not our true friends nor companions. They're just taking advantages of what we are, what we do for their beneficiary purposes.

    John Patrick C. Acosta
    BSA H2-2D

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  28. We are not here on earth to please everybody because whatever we do we can't change this fact.

    What is more important is that we do things that won't hurt other people.Live life to the fullest,and just ignore those who want to break us.We live not because of them,let's learn to look at it in the positive side.They made our life more exciting.

    And if the time comes that we can't take them anymore,just hold on and everything will fall into place...

    Sanchez, Rexandra P.
    BSA 2-22D

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  29. Its a fact, as the saying goes, "You cannot please everybody. Even if you give the best out of yourself, there will still be some people who would not accept you as you are; who would not show you the kindness in return of yours. As you, Professor Cruz, are thinking why some people are son unfair, I also think why. I do agree on the lines on your poem. Maybe because these people are affected by their environment - on what they can see in their families and friends. These vision and their personal experiences (ungrateful one's) give rise to their attitude of being son unfair. Maybe their perspective to this issue is if someone shows them kindness, their response would be unfair. My dear friends, even if this people shows the attitude of being unfair, we still should try to change them, to show them what love is.All they need is someone to give importance to them, who would not hurt them and someone who can listen to them and the one whom they can give their trust. Guys, with the help of these actions, they may still be able to change. Besides, it's not yet late - there is still TIME.

    JAY M. NAPUTO
    BSA H2 - 1D

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  30. yeah :) thats true prof Liway :)
    and I guess , PEOPLE are so unfair because we differs in aspects.

    some people likes the one who you didn't like.
    but for me, it is one of the GOD gifts to us .
    As we all know, WE DO HAVE OUR OWN DESTINY "

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  31. that's true ma'am..

    Regardless of being kind and nice to other they still cheated on you, bring you down and hurt you. I'm always on that situation, even though I'm trying to do my best and make them proud of me still it always ignored and what they always saw are my mistakes. They brought me down and rejected. There's only one person they known and see, they don't feel bad about the mistakes of that person and always praise and recognize the good things it done. No matter hard I try to be recognize and known, I can't gain it. They are so unfair to me. But it's okay, I'm immune to be hurt and reject.

    I know that someone recognize it, the only one who made me stronger and challenge me to fight to this situation. It is He, God.
    I don't care about the judgment of other, coz' there's always a room for mistake in the eye of human but in His eye I know that He is proud of me. I believe in the sayings that, "no matter how nice I am, still I can't please anybody". But I don't really care, what matters the most are God is in me and He do not judge me by my mistake. Perhaps, the world may be unfair to me but He, he never been unfair to me.

    Jennifer B. Batacan
    BOA II-5D

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  32. Life is so unfair always. Many of us already experienced it. I hope this situation would not going to occur anymore to no more feeling would be hurt. Even we do good things there's people who do not accept it and it's so hard to accept that we do our best but for them it's less.

    We do not have to please people to like us. Because they have their own mind and heart to understand. Accept what they do and say if they challenge you and then make all you've got and prove what person you are.




    Marvin Canales
    BOA 2-5D

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  33. Why some people are so unfair? Nowadays, many crimes have been reported; murders, kidnapping, robbery and many more. It only shows that some people are so unfair. They don't care hurting other people just to get what they want. Work hard if you want something. Don't just get it from anyone to the point that killing is the only option.

    I still believe that everyone can change. They just have to be taught that doing bad will not bear good things. It will just ruin their lives.

    BOA 2-5D

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  34. Life is really so unfair !..yes it is.definitely.
    "NO MATTER HOW VERY BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, AND RICH you are ..YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY"..
    I keep holding this principle in my mind. Whatever thing you did, there's always something that will disappoint you no matter how great you tried.

    Nothing is fair, unless you know how to accept the realities of life. Nevertheless, this things makes me become stronger and tried everything in the best that I can.

    Only God knows the real me, and the things I did. No one can judge me. In this world, we need to become courageous enough face challenges in life like for being unfair of life! let's all be happy for what we have and make the most out of it.


    Jessilyn B. Domingo
    BOA 2-5D

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  35. Life is honestly something I believe no one will ever know 100%. If you are expecting everything to be perfect in this world then you will never be sure. Man trust me if you expect too much then you will never get what you want. Concentrate more on what you have and not so much on how the negative turns out. Goals is a different thing if you make goals then you are likely to grab it. You can't just sit around and complain about the unfortunate events in your life. Go out and make things happen.

    Jonathan I. Cruz
    BOA 2-5D

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  36. Fire purifies gold... Similarly, trials strengthen us...

    Some people in this world is truly a bit unfair. However, they are just a piece of sand paper that polishes us.

    As future accountants, they are essential for the success of our career. As they become part of our lives and help us through, we are also ought to help them back.


    AYA MEDINA
    BSA II-22D

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  37. Why some people are so unfair?

    Sometimes I am also wondering about this. Why some people are so unfair if all of us are made by God FAIRLY. There's no such thing as pretty, there's no such thing as ugly. There is no rich nor poor. Maybe some people don't think of it clearly.

    Why do they need to hurt one's feeling instead of giving love. Why are they so boastful instead of being humble.

    Why are some people so unfair? Why?



    Karren C. Tolentino
    BOA 2-5D

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  38. Somebody says...

    Life's is so unfair...


    life is a never ending game of learning...

    When something bad happens to you (or when something good doesn’t happen to you), it may not just be something bad happening to you. It might be a chance to learn something new — about yourself, about the way the world works, about someone else’s feelings toward you.

    So don't think that everything's unfair...

    Erriza M. Idanan
    BOA 2-5D

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  39. That's our life..UNFAIR!!!

    So many people who always bring you down and don't like the way who you are.

    I think no one is fair even some of them are kind to you; still they are unfair to others, because "No one is perfect... that's why pencils have erasers."

    Although I know it's unfair I reveal myself one mask at a time.

    Genalyn M. Lubay
    BOA2-5d

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  40. "No one knows me more than myself."

    While I was reading the poem, injustice, hurt and pain was all over me again as deep as when I was in high school. It reminds me of the hardships I had in school because of a person. The person who misjudged me as an unfriendly, irresponsible and selfish student. The person who always sees the negative side of me instead of my positive side. The person who tells everybody what she heard about me without neither asking me if it's real nor getting my part. The person who made me said, "I don't want to attend the graduation."

    These all happened because I decided not to play badminton when I was in third year high school. She, my coach didn't understand that it was not just my decision, it's my parents, family and friends too. She never understand the fact that if I play, it will affect my studies just like what happened when I was in second year. Why was it that no matter how I respect her, trust her and reach for her, she always seemed to be so far? Didn't she even try to know the real me? How unfair!

    I shouldn't have said these and just forget the past but I can't help it. Maybe I should also thank her for giving me those challenges for I became a stronger person.

    Never be the cause of someone's failure. Instead of pulling someone down, try to take him up.

    GLADYS LORRAINE P. SALAMATIN
    BSA H2-2D

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  41. all of us experienced of being unfair to everyone...we cannot pleased anyone,because we have different outlook in life..

    being unfair in one another, is somewhat normal to everyone of us due to environment we are moving on..

    boa 2-5d

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  42. Why people are so unfair?

    People always misjudge other people. You cannot please all the people you know. There are some people who judge you on what they see. If there are people who judge you should not think of what they thought about you, because only God can judge us.

    Maria Jelena Omaña
    BSA 2-22d(irreg)

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  43. Everyone in this world has a right to do what ever they wanted to do, but be sure that no one will disturb or no one get hurt because of what you did, always think first before you do or say something to someone.
    If a person is not good enough,you should give her respect and and ask her for a help,instead of saying bad words that will affect/insult her personality, be fair all the times, you should understand that "You can do things, that others cannot, You have a characteristics that others doesn't have.

    Bonita B. Agner
    BOA 2-5d

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  44. Why some people are so unfair?

    People always misjudge other people. Before I’m one of them, but as I’m getting older I realized, it’s really bad. We can’t please people to like us, because they have their own mind and heart. We just accept what they do and say because it was just a challenge. All we have to do is to be strong and pray for them.

    Only God knows for who am I and what I am living for.

    Angelica D. Macagaling
    BSA 2-2D

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  46. Take it from someone that knows.
    The problem is our mindset. Our way of thinking. It’s best to just ignore them. They are happy in their ignorance and obviously my thoughts mean jack to them.
    What difference does it make to me if they see things my way? All I ask is that they hear my thoughts and if they refuse then I simply walk away.
    I don’t involve myself with them. We are responsible for our neighbor. Though they may be hurting us, they are still our brothers and sisters, and God will be our father. We still have to understand their feelings and then try to be at peace with them without doing any evil. And so, when God sees us, He will bless our works and He will be our guidance in all our deeds and decisions. And for these unfair people, let God discipline them, just as a father disciplines a stubborn child. And thus, lead them to wonderful changes. I believe that surviving through this we can be a strong person, and that too much expectation can only hurt us, lets be grateful for things so that we will not be disappointed in the end.


    John Paul Bernabe

    BSOA 2-5d

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  47. but I believe that GOD is FAIR to us !!! .. He just giving us different character , different personality . and it depends to us how we understand and appreciate other people around us . its about attitude . it always depends to us ! (people). but to the eyes of GOD, we are all the same .


    Loudette Borromeo
    BSOA II-5D

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  48. us, sinners are undeniably unfair. we only see the beauty outside that someone. the way he looks, acts and when we see even the smallest wrong thing in him, we kind of, what the heck?

    we have some and crave for something. we're not contented to what we have and aim for more. unfortunately when we dont get what we want, we'll say, life is unfair.

    dont you know that life is really fair? yes, it is. God never leaves you alone when troubles are crushing you apart. He created us with different potentials, weaknesses and strength.

    being unfair to people will lead you hurting your own self in the end.

    Marielle Guillermo
    BADPR, 1-1N

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  49. why are some people unfair? well i guess all people are unfair. i am not washing the dirt off my hands, i know that i am unfair. she is unfair, they are unfair, you are unfair, we are all unfair... why? because we all think that others are unfair. we are judging each other aren't we.

    we cause pains to others without knowing it and vice versa... i guess that's how life goes... being unfair to each other, if that is how people wants to call it. but for me it's just being human. we sin and it's hard to avoid that. even our priests or pastors have sins. i have sins, you have sins, we all have sins... it's hard to admit but it's true right?

    the only unfair i can find in there, is our being unfair to God. He put everything in their proper places but we messed things up. that it caused Him so much pain which is unfair for Him...

    That's us people... we are all unfair...

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  50. "I am just wondering why some people are so unfair
    They make a fool out of you despite the kindness you have share
    What they can give you in return is injustice and pain
    Rather than give the kindness that you have shared."

    In that part really relate. making fool out of you is a really painful word, especially when they are your friends and you threat them as your sisters, but after sharing your happiness with them, after the day, you will ask yourself, "Do they really show that they are true to you or they just pretend?"
    I am a real person,and I don't really understand why there are others that looks like fun of fooling others.

    for those kind of person, i hoped that they realized that it is harder to accept that your friends are fooling you than to be hurt by your enemies.


    i love this blog..

    Catherine G. Serdoncillo
    BADPR-1-1N

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  51. ...Sometimes we believe that life is unfair and people are unjust. We also get annoyed with God and asked why certain things happens to us and not happened to others.

    We are the one who chooses what kind of life we want to live. It is not the mistakes of others because sometimes we build the cause of those bad effects and then we proclaim that life is unfair.

    ...God gave us beautiful and fair life. According to Him, just do unto others what you you want others done unto you. When some accuse you, never fight them back because both of you will just done mistakes. Praying for them helps our mind to be calmed and just leave those people to God's hands.


    -Janine D. Doringo
    BADPR 1-1N

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  52. Why some people is unfair?

    When I was a child, i always wondering why some people is so unfair?
    And when I'm growing up... I realized that, that's what life is. You can do anything you want to do in this earth... Eventhough you can hurt some people. But we can't blame them because that is their opinions. Life can be so unfair sometimes but we need to accept the fact that we can't force some people to like us. Someday, they will understand and realized what they were doing. Time will come, and change will only be the way. Forgive and forget. God will always their besides us no matter what happens.

    I also hope that they will not encounter some people like they are.


    Czarina Marie C. Esquivel
    BADPR 1-1N

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  53. LIFE IS SO UNFAIR AND SO DOES THE PEOPLE! We just have to understand each other's differences. That's what every people do. The world never been perfect. It never been. People commit mistakes, but it doesn't mean that they didn't have a good side inside of them. If they're unfair, better be fair to them, cause that is the best way to teach them the word "FAIR".

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  54. For me they are unfair because of the existence of discrimination. They discriminate people because of they're being themselves, or sometimes they are just abusing you.

    If you believe that discrimination exists, it will.
    The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.

    The most unfair thing about life is the way it ends, death.

    BSBA-MM 1-1N

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  55. I'am just wondering why some people are so unfair. After all the good things i have done. And all the things i shared with them. All that i can get is all unfairness. It hurts thinking that what i gave is not what i get. Oh well.. that's life. Be ready that not all the persons you treated so well, will also be nice to you. Just leave them to God and sooner they will realize what they have done. I love unfair persons. They make me a stronger person.

    Anna Kristine Lagasca
    BSED 1-3D :)

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  56. that's questin is also in my mind. i do everything to become fair all the things that surrounds me. but it is not work. but i have to accept that not all the things pr i say people in the world are equal the sight to each other.

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  57. this is one of the questions i actually ask myself. why do some people is so unfair. i am doing my best but it seems like my best wasn't good enough for them.

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  58. Maybe it's because people always think what is best for them and not to the people around them. They didn't choose to be a blessing to others.

    simon gomez
    BSEd 1-3D

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  59. There are two kinds of people in this world. One is good but the other one is bad. Being unfair to others is kind of harsh for us. But God gives us trials that we can solve.


    Bernadette Nicole N. Lopez\
    BSED 1-3D

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  60. People who are narrow minded are unfair kind of being. They do exist but these kind will never lasts because God is always in the way to change them. God offered himself to us but the problem is we ignore his humbleness. It is just the matter of accepting him. Once an individual accept God in his heart the so called "Unfair people" will be enlightened. They'll change for the better.
    Unfair Judgement is because of our narrow mind for other people.

    Alphanie P. Aterrado
    BSBA MM I-6N

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  61. being unfair is an act of unkind hearted man. which they only look forward for themselves. and they don't care about the welfare of others..

    we are created by God that is for Him we are the same and we are brothers and sisters. we should unite, but as this moral exist, unfair person will still be the dominant..

    I wish those kind of people will have pitty on themselves and may they be enlightened by the Lord..

    Judie Ann Princess G. Manabat
    BSBA-MM 1-6N

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  62. We must not think that our life is unfair..
    There has a reason why let this happen.
    For example, there's a rich and there's a poor. There's a reason why their way of living is like that. If God created us all rich, the tendency of it is we are just cruel, envy, lust and pride. So we must not sad if the others have that thing while us we don't have. We must value and appreciate every little things that we received. And also, don't worry if there's some things that we don't receive yet, maybe someday, better things will come to us.

    -- Uraga, Janna Loraine M.
    BSBA- MM 1-6N

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  63. There is a reason why some people is bias, maybe he/she has a person reason or we can he/she has a favoritism. we cannot blame a person for being a unfair, all we can do is just prove that he/she is wrong for doing so.


    Andres Carlo Adic
    BSBA-MM,I-6N

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  64. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.
    n view of the fact that God limited the intelligence of man, it seems unfair that He did not also limit his stupidity.

    joel l. dorado jr.
    bsba-mm-I-6n

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  65. We cannot force all the people to like either love us because the people nowadays are very judgmental but we should not be bothered for whatever they will say as long as we know that we are doing what is right.We are here not to please anybody else but only God alone!



    Rizalyn M.Lope
    BSBA-MM 1-6N

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  66. “The Lord demands fairness in every business deal. He established this principle.” As in Proverbs 16:11 says. But why just some people are unfair even if God made us fair to each other. One reason of being unfair is the “jealous”. Jealous distract us on our life, making us to have the attitude to have things you don’t have. Being unfair made us concious and take us away from ourselves annnnnnd also to GOD.
    Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
    -Romans 12:16

    Carlo F. Suba
    BSBA-MM-1-1N

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  67. Humans are mold with different characteristic and attitude. They seen things as wrong while others seen it as right. Some so bad things in order to gain attention. We can change them but we can't force them. It's life and we can't make them to be someone we want them to be.

    Czarina DC. Lautrizo
    BSBA-MM-1-1N

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  68. Humans have different personality. That's why they give a lot of comments and opinions to the people they really don't know. Without knowing that they can hurt people they do and say bad things. Because of different characteristics, people can't understand each other. Sometimes even you're treating them in a good way they still keep on hurting you. But hating them can't be the solution because it can make the situation more intricate. In this world we can't please everyone to like us.

    Just enjoy life!

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  69. People are different from one another. We have different characteristics and attitudes. It's just like when we say that life us so unfair to us. But to other people, it's not. We don't have the same surroundings. Not the same family and not the same status in life. Maybe those pessimistic people just gone through a problem. Maybe it's because people always think what is best for them. They didn't choose to be a good confidant to others. Being unfair to others is kind of harsh for all the people involved.

    Ana Marie Mae Bonete
    BSBA MM 1-2D

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  70. Some people are so unfair, for me, because of selfishness. They judge so easily at a person without knowing his or her feelings. They only know themselves…They think they are more superior to anyone else. They also do it because of discrimination. That’s why I agree with this saying “Dogs bark at the person they don’t know.”

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  71. why are some people are so unfair? because soem of us are selfish we want to feel so important in anything.

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  72. - some people are not concern on others , because of SELFISHNESS. they only want is the best for them and not to others.


    VILLAFLOR, ABEGAIL P.
    BSED I-3d

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  73. why people is so unfair because all of us are different we want something that others don't. they being unfair maybe because they want something that we cannot give to them, and the other reason is we think that they are unfair but we didn't notice that we are the unfair one how can i say that? because sometimes we didn't understand them, all we want is they understand us and the real unfair one is us.

    Marchell D. Maniclang
    BSBA-MM-1-1N

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  74. People are so unfair because we allow it. I'm not trying to be ugly. But I have learned...the hard way...that you have to demand respect and NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS. Good kind souls are hard to come by people pass them by daily without a second thought. Generally speaking, good and kind souls are also more laid back and less demanding. And instead of doing something to get noticed they are just "there" and people take advantage of it.

    You can still be kind and gentle, but if someone is unfair to you. You need to let them know what they are doing. You can do this tactfully. But you also need to understand that you are not comprimising being "kind" by letting people know you won't put up with them being unkind.

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  75. This trait nowadays is very usual to all people..from the youth to the older.

    NO EQUALITY, NO DISCRIMINATION ! all of that is very very usual to our times now. That fact should be solve now to restore the peace and order to each and everyone of us.

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  76. being unfair is uncontrollable.

    maybe there are just people who likes judging people because by judging them makes themselves different from that person.

    but if you are a victim of wrong impression, of course getting mad is such an easy way. calm yourself because if your going to fight with them in return, their impression on you might last.


    just ignore unfair people.


    "hate is the sin. not the sinner"



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    Ronalyn O. Dometita
    BADPR I-3D

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  77. The best way of being with people is to cope up with their imperfections. And some people may be unfair sometimes, it is a lesson for us of not to copy that kind of deed. And however miserable of being an unfair person is, they still do not deserve people's painful judgement, but rather understanding.

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  78. Some people are unfair. As a friendly person I already encounter this kind of people. They treat you as their friend, but when the time came that they ask for your help and you can give nothing, they will just simple drop by on you. We do good things for them but they don’t appreciate it. People become unfair because they cannot accept the thing which is happening to them.
    In some cases, we will encounter a person that can’t understand, accept and love us. We cannot please everybody and because of this, we need to accept the fact that some people are unfair.

    GINEVIVE B. RISMA
    BADPR 1-3D

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  79. Some people are being unfair to others.If someone do something bad they only see the bad side of it.They did not see the reason why she/he do that things.They betray you even you are loyal to them



    Jhun Mhark A. Ruiz
    ADPR 1-3D

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  81. There's always a reason why some people is unfair/bias, maybe he/she has a person reason or we can he/she has a favoritism. we cannot blame a person for being a unfair, all we can do is just prove that he/she is wrong for doing so.

    it depends on the people around us. some people are honest and trust. In business, you will see different people how they fool people without hurting their feelings.
    ADPR 1-3D

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  82. Yeah true some people are really so unfair.They tend to judged you easily without knowing the real story.For them theyre the one who s always right

    None of us have a "perfect" past. The fact is that we live in a sinful world. However, problems arise when we see life from an "UNFAIR" perspective. When we see ourselves as victims, we become caught in our circumstance whether it be a past or present experience. Our natural response to negative situations is anger. Of course, we have to direct anger toward someone or something. If we direct anger toward others, then offenses follow. If we direct it toward ourselves, then we enslave ourselves. Guilt often follows the anger. Then depression follows the guilt. We feel bad; therefore, we try to find things to compensate for the bad feelings. Addictions often arise at this point. Addictions are things in which we bury ourselves, often to cover negative feelings that arise out of thought of feeling that life is unfair.

    Carla Mulleda
    ADPR 1-3D

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  83. People are only "unfair" to you in a case where

    you have made arrangements to exchange one thing

    for another and they are not following with

    their

    side of the deal. If that is the case, stop

    making deals with them you're just being taken

    advantage of. Get some self esteem and say no.

    Jason P. Ventura
    BADPR 1-3D

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  84. Some people are unfair to others because there's a reason and sometimes based on the situation . Others got unfair but they didn't mean it. But others they such the TRUE UNFAIR PEOPLE they do such things that may hurt others but they don't mind and care about that just to be happy . SELFISH

    JEANROQUERO
    BADPR-13D

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  85. Being UNFAIR has a reason why it happens to a certain person. And this situation leads to break a relationship, especially friendships. The damage will done once someone will be unfair or bias. It may cause to becomes weak your relationship if there will be misunderstanding. It feels sad once it happened that one of your friend will be unfair to you. Because in friendship, if one knows your secret all of the group should also know about it, what friends are for, if the remaining of your friends didn't knew you at all. In friendship and in all matters, FAIRNESS is the "WILL". And it is for our own good. It leads to a better opportunity once UNFAIRNESS disregarded. :))


    > Sabrina Mae Lumbao
    BAdPR1-3d

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  86. There are so many reasons why people show injustice or being unfair. One of these is because we are living in a world where Satan the Devil still rules as being told in the Bible. So we don't need to be shocked if one day we will experience such actions from others. Though it hurts, the Bible had prepared us to this. Yes, God had given us answers to questions which we are still asking.

    Mark Lepasana
    ADPR 1-3d

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  87. I'm also asking that in myself.Why people are so unfair?.It's hard to imagine,that people are so unfair.You do everything for them.You give anything they need.You did anything they want.And you've been well treated them.But despite all of this,they're still so unfair.I really want to know why.But George Eliot said, "what do we live for,if it is not to make life less difficult for each other." So I think,the best thing we should do is to accept.That life are so unfair.

    Joana Marie R. Demore
    BADPR 1-3D

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  88. Is life unfair? For me, my answer would be no because only people/us just turn causes to make life unfair. God created us almost the same with others, God made us equally. He made us different from each other for a reason. Some people criticize others even though they do not know them well. Many of us are judgmental, we discriminate others without enough proof that they are not good in their work. Though they are weak, we should help them and give them a chance to prove what they got before we judge them .

    "Humanity should question itself, once more, about the absurd and always unfair phenomenon of war, on whose stage of death and pain only remain standing the negotiating table that could and should have prevented it. "
    -Pope John Paul II


    -Ma. Lourdes M. Marquez
    BADPR 1-3D :)

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  90. There are many reasons why people are being unfair. Maybe they want to bring you down, or try to put you in their place. In times of need, they need you as a friend but in times that you need them; they just ignore you in so many reasons.
    It’s so hard to see people that do not know how to show indulgence to what good will you do for them. I know for some reasons as a pay for what you do, you expect something for them. But a great advice, just show them or do things that you know is right and for their good sake, keep it up, just don’t expect a pay for that. It’s their conscience of being selfish. In fact it’s not your “kawalan". It’s the way too, how to be a better person. Just don’t trust anyone, know them first because you’ll never when a “dead snake turn into a poisonous bitch”. As what you’ve said, just pray for them. Don’t bother them; you won’t be affected, as long as you don’t let them to put you down.



    Mary Grace Aras
    BADPR I-3D

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  91. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

    LARA MAE TIU
    BBTE II-3N

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  92. People are sometimes unfair to face the life. They don't care hurting other people just to get what they want. Work hard if you want something. Don't just get it from anyone to the point that killing is the only option.they don't know what is the filling of being alone. but don't forget that god has always there for you. And
    Let’s just be in reality that some of us are modernized and some of us are not easily to trust as long as we are not close to each other.

    BADPR 1-3D
    KUEMMUEL A.ASISTIO

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  93. they say life is unfair.
    we are not born as rich as the other.

    why people are so unfair. after they get what they need they just dropped you off. that is maybe a naturalism of a people.

    bte2-3n
    avegail dante

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  94. In life, you will meet different kinds of people. Some will be so memorable to you and some will be just strangers. And few can feel bad about yourself. For you will ask yourself: Do I deserve to be treated this way? Even you keep befriending them, still they don't want you. Maybe because, some are meant to be your friends, while, others remain mere acquaintance. By experience, you will know that it is better to find someone else that will fit your personality and deserve to be your friends. You will deserve to be treated the way you treated them. Ignore the people who treats you bad and don't waste your time making yourself acceptable by them. The treatments should be equal. They should accept for who you are.

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  95. In life, there are different kinds of people you may know. There’s the one who can make you happy and there’s the other who can make you cry. In this poem, people are so unfair. Hmm, for me there are unfair people but not all. The best way to avoid this kind of thinking is to just have in mind that they exist because God gave us this kind of people for us to test ourselves on how to deal with these persons. “They will just dropped you just like that”, remember that when somebody leaves you, someone will come, better than you wish for.



    --Joy Abigael M. Pria
    BBTE 2-3n

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  96. In life we are not perfect no one is designed to be righteous that's why we are not perfect. everyday we meet new friends that would become part of our life. Sometimes, they are the one who encouraged us to be brave and nice and sometimes half them are the one who can backstabbing you while you are in the middle of trusting them. no one is perfect and even you and me or us is not perfect that's why s some people leads their companionship to misunderstanding and misinterpretation. but remember this some of them will remain beside you to continue the a happy life together with you.

    --shariff john l. guzman
    --bte 2-3n

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  97. Sometimes i tend to ask why life seems to be unfair for several reasons at all. But I suddenly thought about if it was really our life who's unfair or the people around us who do things that brings pain and injustice that makes us think how our life can be so unfair. There are so many people who have experienced the pain of cruelty and inferiority among their selves yet they still continue the way they were. I cannot blame them for doing so because I think the world will never be fair to those people who allow themselves to be victims of others. I'm not saying that we should learn to fight violently, rather we should know how to stand for our right and be strong enough and just let others do their way for kindness shall always prevail.

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  98. Life really IS unfair.
    One thing I can compare this injustice is to the song 'Tatsulok' by Bamboo, in which it discusses the inequity of rich and powerful people to those of lesser status.
    We always strive to have a good, equal life. But not everyone is generous and kind, to give way to the people who want to achieve something in their lives. Most people are selfish, they only think about themselves, their power, their money. They do not care about hurting others as the pave their bloody road to success.
    We can all strive to become better. But if not all of us strive for equality, it is of no use.
    So we should pray and become united with each other and the fair ways of the Lord will always come out in the end.

    - Leilani Lam Ko
    BSIOP 1-1

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  99. Everyone of us is unique. We have our own physical appearance, strengths and weaknesses. The reality of life is we cannot please everyone. If sometimes people are so unfair, let's just pray for them. Because God had a reason for doing everything.

    Fretzel Jean R. Teodosio BSBA-HRDM I-2

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  100. In this modern generation, most people lived according to what they want.Sometimes they become greedy and not contented in their life.This act of greediness,somehow,bring troubles into someone's life.

    Sometimes people become unfair because they wanted to have more in such things than his neighbors.Like to have higher grades,higher salary/income,more properties,etc.For example,in a business partnership.It should be equal in terms of division of work and especially in distributing profits but one wanted to get bigger portion in their profit because he thinks that he contributed more in their work.It only shows that the person became unfair to his partner because in the first place it should be an equal division.

    We cannot please all people.We have different personality and perspective in life.Let's be considerate as long it is acceptable


    Zarah Jane C. Catando/ BSBS HRDM 1-1

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  101. Through our journey in life, we will encounter people that are unfair and will pull us down like we don't have the heart to feel the pain. These people will make fun of you despite the good things you showed them. Because of the things they are doing, they are just making us strong enough to face all the challenges that comes in our way. Just be positive on the things that is happening to your life.

    Cristine C. Almucera
    BSIOP 1-1

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  102. For me, life is isn't fair. It never was and so did each and every one of us. A person's characteristic which was dominant at him/her the time you intentionally or unconsciously judge him/her, that's the trait of that person that you would always think when you hear or see his/her name, see, talk with him/her. By that, life is fair. Other people were just like you when judging someone.People would judge you and other people would also do that on you.

    Maria Set V. Armero
    BSIOP 1-1

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  103. As they say, you can't please everybody. We just have to understand them and don't let them affect us in a bad way. We should just think of it as a challenge that will make us stronger after we conquer it. We should think positive and keep moving forward.

    Joyce Althea Laxamana
    BSIOP 1-1

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  104. -People are really so unfair. Just like life. They say that you can't always get what you want. Even when we are down some people will still kick us even if they see us in that sorry state. People are really so unfair it doesn't matter even if you are on the edge of breaking down they will still push you to the edge. Life is never fair. Always have, always will.


    Marc Kalleil Santos
    BSIOP 1-1

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  105. Act good or bad, having their rights, people will always make their remarks and give opinions on how they see things. It is simply because it is everyone's freedom to speak what is inside his/her mind. That's why we shouldn't be surprised if some people will love us and some would do nothing but to hate. That is precisely because we are not made to please each and every person around us. That is, of course, impossible. But no matter what the odds are, always choose to be real and to act real. Because do it or not, people will always make a comment and it is up to us how well we can deal with those ideas that they have about us.

    -ELONICA GIA D. BACCAY
    BSIOP 1-1

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  106. I can relate to your wonderful poem, Ma'am. I also ask my self why some people especially close to me are so unfair. I don't know why but after all the kindness I gave to them, they give it back negatively. Some people judge me but they don't know who really am I. I feel so sad about it. Despite of this,I should let it go. I should forgive and think positive always. We should be strong and confident. I believe that little problems or misunderstanding can solve by a simple talk and forgiveness. We are living in a democratic country so we should be always fair to others.



    Raphael Benedict Chan
    BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  107. "How unfair the fate which ordains that those who have the least should be always adding to the treasury of the wealthy."
    -Terence

    Life is built by imperfections. In this world, we are living with different people merged with different minds and attitude, we cannot blame them for what they are because they are also victims of experiences. Lucky for those who understand and pity for those who don't. Just live the way you know that you can help others and try to think that being fair is hard to do but it is the best answer for all the sufferings of others.

    LOU ANTONETTE DUMELOD
    BSIOP 1-1

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  108. This world that we live in was truly unfair.People do such thing just for their own sake not knowing that they are hurting the people around them.We could not accuse for doing those things because sometimes the situation force them to do this things.Just forgive them in their wrong doings and continue living in this world full imperfections.


    MARVIN J. BERNARDINO
    BSIOP 1-1

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  109. As an individual, we must understand that we differ from each other. Everyone is unique. WE just need to show them that even though they act like that we can accept them and soon they will realize that they are wrong and need to change. if that happens they will appreciate you more and love you.

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  110. we all know that no two individuals are exactly alike we still have our differences especially in our character.there are some people who always do bad things to others.they are always making fun in the mistakes of others.sometimes those people affect our behavior,they can lessen our self esteem.the only thing we can do to those person is to pray for them

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  111. People have different personalities and behavior, some have good and some have bad and moody behavior. Sometimes we interact with people who have different behavior than us or those who have bad personality like the liars, self centered and unfair people but we should understand why they have such behavior . Sometimes they became like that because of their environment or how their parents mold them to be or it is just their natural behavior. We should talk to them and made them realize that what they're acting is wrong and can be hated by anyone. But sometimes we can just accept them for who they are because that is what they made of.

    JANINE MACAPUGAS
    BSIOP I-1

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  112. The concept of fairness is actually caused by the feeling of having no favor of the situation.We perceive life as fair if a thing that comes our way makes us smile,and vice-versa.We,as future psychologists,should not think as life is fair or unfair due to one's own perception.We should have no biases to become good psychologists.We will face different people and we must face each of them with equal respect.

    Laurence Clyde R. Andrada
    BSIOP 1-1

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  113. Life is really unfair but we need to accept this crucial truth and continue living . Continue doing good to others eventhough they judge you just wait for them to realize that they are wrong . Dont let them think you in a way that you are not .

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  114. life although unfair is somewhat fair.why?there are many things that come in our life that we often complain about but haven't we thought of it as a way to improve our selves?life gives us many problems but this problems may seem unfair but they are really fair.its a two way process we receive problems and we solve them then we get an upgrade,what's unfair with that?god may seem unfair but he is fair all the time.

    gerard sta cruz
    bsiop 1-1

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  115. it shows that people are different. you cant please everyone to like you. there are people who will judge you even though they don't know you very well. they might hurt your feelings yet you still have to accept the reality that life is made unfair. whenever you have heard their thoughts about you, just thank and pray for them for recognition they give in every simple things you do.

    -marie cris casil
    BSIOP 1-1

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  116. sometimes other people misjudge you and degrade you. i think that this is just a proof that they are insecure. we should don't mind them but just use this an inspiration to prove them that they are wrong and they don't have the right to misjudge us. just pray and thank god that he don't made you like those who are judgemental.

    Marcos, sarah mae R.
    bsiop 1-1

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  117. i believe that we cannot please everyone. there will be a person who will judge you and dislike you. but as long as we know that we are not hurting anyone, we just have to ignore them and eventually they will be tired of doing it because they will notice that their insecurities doesn't affect us. and in the end, they are the ones who will be at the losing side.

    Jada Lahaylahay
    BSIOP 1-1

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  118. Its just so unfair how some people can depreciate dignity of others. acting as superior on others. but then i realize to neglect that people having bad vibes/attitudes towards others. just look within my self and i can find life worthliving for i am unique and special in my own way.

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  119. This the nature of man so we can't change it.Many person will look on what you are doing and then judge you without knowing it.They may become unfair but still we must ignore them and go with the flow so you can become succesful.So don't let them affect you.

    ENRIE MICHAEL SANTOS BSIOP1-1

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  120. Many of us experience being treated unfairly. And many of us too, treat others unfair. Why do other people do unfair things? Do they will get lots of compliments and incentives in showing unfair treatment? Or because they want to treat in a more exclusive and special way than others? Others speak out "Life is unfair", because they were not on the upper side of the world, they were not married to the one they love or they do not experience happiness on their entire life. But I know God gave us good plans and He treat us fairly. "In God's eyes, there were neither poor nor rich."

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  121. --We can't really blame people for being so judgmental to others. We live in a harsh world, aren't we? The best thing we can do is to just ignore those rumors they throwing back at us and move on with our lives even if it hurts us. Sometimes, I believe it hurts more verbally like someone said hurtful things about you. It really tore your heart. It's so sad that you have nothing against them because it's their opinion. It's better than rather to tell you lies.


    Prolles, Melody M.
    BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  122. Sometimes you'll thought that everyone were being unfair. But there is God that is the only FAIR in everyone you'll ever met. As for me God and my friends are the only FAIR in my life now.

    Patricia Marie Daita
    HRMD 1-4N

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  123. It is such a very nice poem I've ever read. As an individual we are different in many aspects of our life. But why some people did not understand others and why they are so unfair.
    the only thing and truth that I hold on is that there is one Big God who is just and pair to each and everyone.

    HRDM 1-4N

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  124. `Really true ! Some people are so unfair. Despite of all the kindness that you have showed to them, they give you pain and a big blow to your heart. They cause you so much pain. Some are so judgmental. Saying bad things and sarcastic words that keep on hurting others.

    As what others say, you cannot please everybody. So if they don't have anything good to say then you don't have time to listen to them. They're not worth your time. Remember, when they say bad things about you, they are not referring to you, they're talking about themselves. They don't have anything else to do that's why they keep on ruining other peoples life ..

    BSBA-HRDM 1-4N

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  125. There are many people here on Earth that is so unfair, treating others the way they like it and the way they can hurt them. They don’t think of the person’s feelings when they treat them unfairly because all they want is to have their success even if they will hurt other people and they also want to surpass the capabilities of other people but they can’t so they just treat them unfairly for them to be able to surpass them. These unfair person was so greedy and selfish because they only think for their own sake and they don’t even care for what will happen for the feelings and for the one that was been hurted.

    Erika Angela Mojica
    BSBA-HRDM 1-4N

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  126. Some people are only "unfair" to you in a case where you have made arrangements to exchange one thing for another and they are not following with their side of the deal. If that is the case, stop making deals with them you're just being taken advantage of. Get some self esteem and say no.

    If you really were nice, kind and gentle you would just "be" nice, kind, and gentle without the worry of how the world reacted to you. Instead I feel as though the story is more- you do nice things for people with the expectation of something in return and are frustrated when you don't get what you expected someone might do out of common courtesy as a gesture of thanks. It seems to me that it wouldnt hurt you to learn to be kind, fair and gentle unconditionally.

    You may be able to practice the qualities of being nice, kind and gentle, however if you are viewing yourself that way everyone else is probably viewing you as quiet and passive. And if all else fails and it bothers you that much only be nice or kind or gentle when you only feel earnest about it and not out of obligation or guilt.



    MARLON AQUIAS
    BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  127. RICA M. GUILALAS
    BSBA-HRDM 1-1

    There are good and bad people as well as fair and unfair humans. Maybe some of us are wondering why there is a need to have an unfair companion in life. But then, we must relize and just think the advantages of having them. They can teach us how to become strong and how to survive in this playful life. In addition, you may also help them to change from an unfair person to a better and admire on through our prayers.

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  128. This article is very real. There are people that are really unfair. They just let us down but as i am looking at the bright side i realize that they are one of the things that will help us to be a better person. Without them we won't become so eager to do our best. -ROSELEIN S. CATAPANG HRDM 1-1

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  129. True. That is just how it goes.
    Some people are just unfair and that is reality. We are living in a society full of critics and some of them were unfair. It makes me sick that they don't give a thing of being fair. Good thing something awaits for this kind of people. Let us be more patient because there is a right judgement that awaits us. Look at the other side, The brighter side.

    Carl of
    BSBA-HRDM 1-1

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  130. They probably felt injustice and being hurt. Showing them love might change his/her heart of stone. Doing good for others is essential for life so that you will not encounter big problems and fights as life goes on.

    REGINE B. CAYETANO
    BSBA-HRDM 1-1

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  131. Fainess must be attained by all of us, but because there are other people who dont care and appreciate their fellowmen, some heart's feel brokenness and sorrow.

    JudymaeGonzales
    BSBA HRDM 1-1

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  132. There are people that can hurt you over and over even if you show them care and kindness. Even if you gave them the most of your time, it is just not enough. They just drop you off without the care on what you feel. But that's life, we just have to put in mind that everything happens for a reason and I think this can teach us to value our selves.

    Jennifer Pimentel
    BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  133. they say life is unfair, honestly i also think of this way, but as i think deeper the problems brought by people or situations are just trials for me to be strong.
    Catherine B. Molina
    of BSA 2-20D

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  135. Life is so unfair because many people only see your mistakes and criticize you instead of praising your kindness. But don't hate them because of it, instead adapt it in a positive way that will make you better than before.

    John Lester Cruz
    BSA 2-20D

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  136. People have different characteristics/attitude. In our way in achieving our dreams in life there's a possibility that we will deal with people who have that kind of attitude so we must learn how to deal with them.


    Cherry Mae Bartolome
    BSA 2-20

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  137. Our country is a mixture of different people having different characteristics. Time will come that others will treat you in a negative way but instead of hating them, prove them that they are wrong by showing them the real and the best you that they can have and be with anytime.

    Ryan Neil Fetilo
    BSA 2-20

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  138. LIFE is so unfair for those people who cant accept where they are now. In some cases, not all people can LOVE us, UNDERSTAND us ,and RESPECT us, but who cares !! we must act who we really are and always give our best SHOT !!!

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  139. We are living in the world of criticisms and discrimination. Many people nowadays are so judgmental and doesn't care for the feelings of others. I am wondering if they were happy with their way of living or they just mean to do those things. I agree that all we have to do is to pray for them and may God guide them in doing what is right.

    Shairaly A. Tolentino
    BSA 2-20D

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  140. Sometimes we feel that we're being pushed hard by circumstances in life. We're being condemn, judge and criticize. But for some, they're using this moment to make them stronger, wiser and better person. Just look things in a positive way because we may learn from it. Instead of complaining about life being unfair, use it as your stimulation in living life.

    BSA 2-20

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  141. You have to choose the people you will be with and you will call them Friends. Friends that will never misjudge,fool or use you are called Real Friends. So find your real friends.

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  142. We cannot please everyone to like us or to be like by us.This world is full of judgments and criticism.There some people who are unfair,people who are thirsty of power and money.Power always corrupts.It is an interest in exercising control over others.But, like the fleeting glimpse of a monarch butterfly ,power is always on the verge of disappearing.All we can do right now is to let God handle those unfair people and let ourselves be stronger in spite of many critics in this world.

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  143. People cannot be pleased everytime. Sometimes they are being biased. And we cannot change that attitude of them. All we can do is to pray for them and let God do what they deserve. Another thing we can do is to avoid being like them. Avoid being biased and unfair.

    Salve Ballesteros, BSA 2-20D

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  144. How can you say people are unfair? If they are feeling envy to other person, they do everything just to pull down that person and grab what it has. Some are abusing the kindness giving to them. Some do not think the essence of saying thank you despite of doing everything just for them. Some people treat you as a friend but behind that they are just using you. And that thing really hurts to know.

    BSA 2-20D

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  145. Every individual differs from one another. Not everyone will be nice to you. You just have to accept them as they are so you wouldn’t feel that bad. Some might judge and criticize us but don’t let those people bring you down, instead use their judgment as motivation for you to be a better person.


    Lirio Mae B. Lopez
    BSA 2-20D

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  146. It is not new when it comes to fairness. Maybe we forget that Life is unfair, but even if it is unfair, we can make it a perfect one.
    One differs from another, it is usual. The important is that we must accept our differences cause we were made differently. We have our own characteristics that made us unique. With these differences, we must accept it. Only God can judge us, so don't worry if others pull you down. Always remember, God will lift you up.



    Kimberly B. Bamba
    BSA 2-20D

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  147. Not all the time we can please other people . There will comes a time that they will tell you unnecessary words you think that they can never tell you . You have done your best just to be good to them but in return they will make you fell that you are the worst person they have known

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  148. “Do not judge a book by its cover’’ A cliché phrase but true. This phrase might interrelate because lots of people are opposing others but they didn’t see their wrong doings. People are getting unfair because what is important for them is the eagerness to achieve their certain goal. This world revolves around competition. The best thing to do is to learn to love yourself . Accept who you are. Do not be afraid to let you show your true colors rather than thinking you’re less than perfect. Appreciate your own uniqueness and self-worth.

    Shalom G. Gallanosa
    BSBA-HRDM 1-1

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  149. We live on a world where competition takes place. Each one of us is making our best to survive. We follow the right etiquette just to be with good persons. But as life goes on, we can't deny the fact that some people are doing mischief activities. Even at work, some people are so unfair. Some bring biases on their employees. They are much favorable to their close friends inside the company. Sometimes, when a new employee with higher educational background enters, they don't show fairness to new ones during the first couple of days. This is their way on competing with other people on this competitive world.

    BSA 2-15D

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  150. You should be sensitive enough to others so that they treat you the same way too.

    Ramil B.Recones BSBA-HRDM 1-1

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  151. Let us extend hands of compassion and kindness to them so that they would realize that being "unfair" is not good at all.

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  152. We as human, we should know that God created us in different ways. Therefore, we have different attitudes, facial features, skin complexion and many more. So, we should not judge other people on what they are doing for as it is written on the BIBLE "JUDGE NOT, SO THAT YOU BE NOT JUDGED!" Do you think that it is good to judge others? Of course it's not right? So, why don't you stop doing it for the sake of others not to feel down and sad. Because if you keep on doing it, God is watches over you so don't wait that time will come that you will feel the same like what you did before.

    PRECIOUS DESIREE EMPESTAN
    BSBA-HRDM I-2

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  153. JOHNPAUL B BRONOLA - HRDM 1-2

    Some people are so unfair. Some people made as a second choice that's you think they are unfair. Many said that life is unfair. There are handsome,beautiful while there are ugly. Why do we think life is so unfair?. Why dont we just look at the thing that we have. Think of your friends that treasure you a lot.

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  154. We could not stop them being judgmental, fault finder, unfair because that's their attitude. Some say that we could not please everybody because they will seek some reasons why we should not be a pleasing person. Maybe their just insecure. But that's life. Just remember, we should love our self because we're born this way!

    HRDM 1-2

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  155. Judging people is in our genes, it is our instinct, but upon limiting and controlling it are very applicable and more accurate. We judge others 'cause we all acquired criticism in the highest kind. We do it 'cause we want them to learn and be pleasing about it.
    Adonis Keith M. Catindoy HRDM 1-2

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  156. we cant please everybody to like and love us . thats the thing that we must always remember that all people have their standards in befriending people. live as if they dont exist prove yourself.

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  157. We cannot please everybody to be good to us all the time. Sometimes, showing their bad sides help us in realizing that we are better than them because we don't think the same way they do. Maybe they have their own reasons why they do such things knowing they might hurt someone.


    Joanne Marie B. Prieto
    BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  158. Some people are so unfair to us may be because they cannot understand and accept who and what we are. and its either they are just insecure or immature. We cannot please everybody. We just have to accept that all people have differences and not all are willing to understand us.

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  159. Some people are really unfair. You'd do enormous things for them, still they'd treat you bad. That's how some people really are. It's up to someone how to react about it. If we're gonna do something good for anyone, better for us not to expect something good from them.

    - BSBA-HRDM 1-2

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  160. Through our journey in life, we will encounter people that are unfair and will pull us down like we don't have the heart to feel the pain. These people will make fun of you despite the good things you showed them. Because of the things they are doing, they are just making us strong enough to face all the challenges that comes in our way. Just be positive on the things that is happening to your life.

    Cristine C. Almucera
    BSIOP 1-1

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  161. In life, we cannot please everybody. Whether we like it or not, there will come a time that we will encounter this kind of people. But instead of pleasing them, we should think of a way of changing their lives by just our existence. Above all, we should continuously give unconditional love and joy.

    Krizelle Ann Hugo
    BS Chemistry 1-1

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  162. some people are unfair because sometimes they are not aware of the things they are doing to others
    and also because they are given the chance to do such things..
    a person has a possibility not to make that if someone always reminding them not to do it

    a persons value can't be take for granted cause everyone has an emotion

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  163. We know that not everything is fair and always in our favor. Even we do our best to be a good person some people cheats and fool others. They doing bad things for their own sake and don’t mind if could hurt the persons around them. We know what is right and wrong we are the one to decide what kind of life we want. Use our conscience and do what is right. Remember the golden rule, "Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself"

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  164. Why so unfair, discrimination, judgement, etc. But all of that if they realize that they think that not all people are perfect for that because we do mistake and they notice that they do that. But we do not back what we doing discrimination to other. But it cures if we say sorry for that.

    Albert King M. Baylon
    BSA 2-9D

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  165. There are a lot of people who really judge without really knowing who they're judging. And I too sometimes, honestly speaking, become one of them. People are not perfect, no one is. But we have to do something about us being unfair. Let's try to think before we judge, It wont take us forever so why not? Let us act with knowledge, know what would be the pros and cons of our actions. That way we could not hurt others. Let's just think wisely before we think. We are not perfect, yes, but let us try to be one.

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  166. People have problems. I feel like it's their way of getting away, putting their burdens to other people. It is very wrong, though, I believe they have reasons. I am not being a saint or some holy ghost, but someday I know they will realize whatever they've done is wrong, and that they will change for the better. The bottom line is, no matter how rude or unfair people are to us, we should stay kind to them, because they're all fighting a battle we know nothing about.
    Gem R. Martinez
    BSIOP II-2

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  167. Maybe people are unfair but I think that's not true. We, people, are different in each other. We have different opinions, and perspectives in life. How we see life is different from one another. Sometimes, some people don't appreciate the kindness that you have given to them. Or there are times that no matter how many good things you have done to them, once you did a bad thing, that bad thing will remark you as you. However people think about you, just ignore them. You know more about yourself rather than them. No matter how unfair people are, we continue in doing good things because that is the right thing to do. -Pearline De Dios bsiop 2-2

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  168. Sometimes in our life there are scenarios that we will meet a person who doesn’t like us. I don’t also know the reason why but maybe they don’t want my behavior at all. I don’t care of who they are because I know I’m acting on good way of communicating with someone to avoid misunderstanding. Understand person of who they are because in the end they might know that they should be kind and respect others.

    Mabelle D. Besana
    BSIOP II-2

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  169. I think there really is nothing and no one fair in the world. Even the world is not fair. We may not see it but all of us have been unfair in some situations. I guess its just how it goes. Actually, even God is not fair. Because he is just.

    Gonzales, Jesselle Clayda T.
    ABE 2-3

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  170. ABE2-3

    We can't handle peoples' feelings and emotions. Nobody's fair

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  171. everyone has their own feelings, we should respect their feelings and decisions.

    Polintan, Hazel Ann P.
    HRDM 2-1s

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  172. We’re all different here on earth. Some people might hurt you, drag you down, give you pain, will bully you or anything bad that they can do to you for them to be happy. I don’t know if they really get happiness in way they treat other people. However, if you will meet a person like that still be humble, have patience, be understanding, and kind. If you’re the one who most understand the situation just forgive the person and pray for them for you to get well and move on.

    Erica Crecia A. Guarin / BLIS 4-1

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